Let’s be honest with ourselves and accept that English spelling is a mess. I look at the children I teach with a compassionate heart and ruthlessly hand then their new spellings list. Most of them have learning needs in one form or another–most of which I am at ease with. However, as an English teacher I have to teach spelling. And by teach, I mean on a weekly basis bludgeon my pupils with rules that are inconsistent at best, and make no sense.
Growing up, spelling came naturally to me. The combination of loving words and meaning while also lacking interest in pattern helped with this. I am interested in words. However, many of my pupils are not as enamoured.
Early in my career, I taught in a bilingual Spanish/English classroom. This was my only experience teaching Spanish spelling and I am wistful when I think about it. Basically–(and I am not fluent in Spanish) the way Spanish words sound is how they are spelt. Take afuera (outside). Teaching a child this word would simply mean identifying the sounds and writing them down. That is it.
English spelling, as you no doubt know, is not at all as reasonable. Just this week I gave a group the -igh pattern of spellings for the long i sound. The week before I’d given them the “Magic e” words. You see this Magic e when placed at the end of words tells all vowels to say their names. A boy in my class who is a native Italian speaker asked, quite reasonably, when given the -igh words: “Miss, but what about the Magic e?” I told him categorically that that he was silly for expecting so much from English. “It will never make sense, my dear,” I told him. “Just accept this and you will improve your English.” Well I didn’t actually tell him he was silly, but I did tell him to not think so much about English rules.
This harshness is a product of over 20 years teaching English in one for another. When I taught English as another language in 1996, I would actually attempt to explain my students’ questions about grammar. While this shows my knowledge (& love) of grammar–it did nothing to actually improve their English.
As babies we accept the world around us and use what we learn to get what we want. We learn by doing. My students need to read and write to get better at spelling. Too much explanation muddies their practise of it. I hope want them to conserve their energy putting it to good use. I’m sure Yoda would agree with me in this–“Do or not do. There is no try.” Trying to do English is not doing it at all. So instead of explaining the multiple patterns of long i sounds to my native Italian speaker I told him simply to read the words and spell them to me.
Here are some (non-definitive) guidelines about English spelling–
1. When you think you have a pattern, an exception is just around the corner.
2. Knowing English sounds help, but not really.
3.Use all your senses to help you remember words. Sing a spelling out so it will stay in your head. Tap out the rhythm of a word. Use play dough to spell them. Do what you must!
4. Read more.
I’ll stop there because I’ll end up saying something “I before e, except after c,” or some other nonsense.